{"id":96,"date":"2019-08-31T03:05:55","date_gmt":"2019-08-31T03:05:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mypersonalpodcastreferencer.com\/?p=96"},"modified":"2023-02-05T03:06:27","modified_gmt":"2023-02-05T03:06:27","slug":"opposites-attract-maybe-not","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mypersonalpodcastreferencer.com\/index.php\/2019\/08\/31\/opposites-attract-maybe-not\/","title":{"rendered":"Opposites attract &#8211; maybe not"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"946\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/mypersonalpodcastreferencer.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/TeamPLayers-946x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Team Players\" class=\"wp-image-97\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mypersonalpodcastreferencer.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/TeamPLayers-946x1024.jpg 946w, https:\/\/mypersonalpodcastreferencer.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/TeamPLayers-277x300.jpg 277w, https:\/\/mypersonalpodcastreferencer.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/TeamPLayers-768x831.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mypersonalpodcastreferencer.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/TeamPLayers-1419x1536.jpg 1419w, https:\/\/mypersonalpodcastreferencer.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/TeamPLayers-1892x2048.jpg 1892w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 946px) 100vw, 946px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column has-small-font-size is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Well it turns out that the only personality trait that you\u2019re be better off if it was opposite is Neuroticism. If you both score high in it, you\u2019re sunk. As for the rest of the personality traits you\u2019d be much better off if you\u2019re similar.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>In psychology today they\u2019ve standardized on the Big 5 Traits. What are these traits?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Enthusiasm (spontaneous joy and engagement) and Assertiveness (social dominance, often verbal in nature) for Extroversion.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Withdrawal (the tendency to avoid in the face of uncertainty) and Volatility (the tendency to become irritable and upset when things go wrong) for Neuroticism.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Compassion (the tendency to empathically experience the emotion of others) and Politeness (the proclivity to abide by interpersonal norms) for Agreeableness.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Industriousness (the ability to engage in sustained, goal-directed effort) and Orderliness (the tendency to schedule, organize and systematize) for Conscientiousness.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Openness (creativity and aesthetic sensitivity) and Intellect (interest in abstract concepts and ideas) for Openness to Experience.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s quite intriguing to take a quick personality test and then have your spouse take it for you. How we<br>perceive ourselves is not always how others see us.<br>Dr. Oz had Dr. Jordan B. Peterson on his show and then offered a free quick personality type quiz.<br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.doctoroz.com\/quiz\/quiz-whats-your-personality-type\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.doctoroz.com\/quiz\/quiz-whats-your-personality-type<\/a> It\u2019s well worth taking the full test and being able to review the full analysis you get with it.<br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.understandmyself.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.understandmyself.com\/<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Well it turns out that the only personality trait that you\u2019re be better off if it was opposite is Neuroticism. If you both score high in it, you\u2019re sunk. As for the rest of the personality traits you\u2019d be much better off if you\u2019re similar. In psychology today they\u2019ve standardized on the Big 5 Traits.<span class=\"post-excerpt-end\">&hellip;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"more-link\"><a href=\"https:\/\/mypersonalpodcastreferencer.com\/index.php\/2019\/08\/31\/opposites-attract-maybe-not\/\" class=\"themebutton\">Read More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-96","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog","category-continuallearning"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mypersonalpodcastreferencer.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/96","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mypersonalpodcastreferencer.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mypersonalpodcastreferencer.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mypersonalpodcastreferencer.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mypersonalpodcastreferencer.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=96"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mypersonalpodcastreferencer.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/96\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":98,"href":"https:\/\/mypersonalpodcastreferencer.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/96\/revisions\/98"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mypersonalpodcastreferencer.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=96"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mypersonalpodcastreferencer.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=96"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mypersonalpodcastreferencer.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=96"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}