Book Review
Author: Sam D. Burndorfer.
Resident dog at Karl Burndorfer’s home.
Behavioral Researcher and Associate Professor
of Canine Studies at DogU
Presentation given to Shepherd’s Toastmasters
Group 2017-Jun-15
From the Calgary Catholic School District Head
Office boardroom
I know you were expecting Professor Sam to come and deliver his awesome presentation covering his ground breaking work with people.
He texted me this morning and unfortunately he got “tied up” and asked if I could present it for him.
He recommended I only give a short intro on him.
Matthew 5:16
Let your light so shine before men,
that they may see your good works,
and glorify your Father which is in Heaven.
He is a leading figure on unconditional love, and his favorite scripture is Matt 5:16.
He took this scripture seriously and built a life full of rich & rewarding experiences. It came to him that he could share these and he decided to write a companion book to one called ‘Preach my Gospel’.
His version is called “Preach my gospel for missionary minded dogs”.
The material for his book came from these
experiences. He started connecting with dogs
and their owners back in 2006. Since then he
has honed his many natural gifts to maximize
his effectiveness.
He worked on that enthusiastic hop and a skip in his walk; in maintaining good hygiene, and of course, perfecting the haircut for bigger paws and ears to retain that puppy adorableness
factor. All crucial factors when breaking the ice with strangers you meet.
Note: Getting that haircut just right matters more than a good meal.
By reading Sam’s book, you’ll be able to overcome any shyness or apprehensions you may have over making new friendships.
Why, because your dog will be taking care of that for you.
You’ll be more fit than ever before as you take on his prescribed healthier lifestyle, and he will help you make your mark in the community.
It’s all in his book, so let me cover with you today, the main highlights, and see if he can convert you to his new way of life.
The Book
Sam’s starts off covering some basics about picking the best breed, in case you don’t have a dog already. He wants you to know that not all dogs equally suited for this.
- Puppies are, because they’re just so cute and playful. These are key attributes to retain if you want to
instantly connect with people. - We know size matters, the bigger you are the more you can frighten, the smaller you are, the more
you can annoy. - He indicates black dogs get a bad rap because people associate black with evil. He thinks it’s mostly
due to cats. See his chapter on Black dog syndrome. - So the perfect breed, to further you in this cause, is a blonde Cairn Terrier, which just so happens to
be his breed.
Black dog syndrome
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Black dog syndrome or big black dog syndrome is a disputed phenomenon in which black dogs are passed over for adoption in favor of lighter colored animals. Animal shelters often use the
term BBD, or big black dog, to describe the type of larger dark-colored mixed breed said to be typically passed over by adopters.
Picture shows a rescued BBD (Big Black Dog)
He then discusses how “Daily Routines” lay the foundation for building your network of new friends.
- Dogs love to go on walks. None of this
“opening the back door and letting them
decimate your back yard” stuff. Real walks, with poop bags (large ones) and a long leash. - Best times for walks varies, and depends on folks in your neighborhood. It’s optimum to have a morning walk, a get home from work walk, and an evening walk. You just need to work out when the other dog walkers are out on their
walks. - The distance you cover in your walks
determines the size of your network. Just
remember, people can’t manage more than 150
friends. Based off research by Sam’s associate Robin Dunbar - Finally, Get in the habit of limiting the use of headphone and other distracting devices, so no one feels they’re interrupting you.
Watch the video by Sam’s close research
associate: Robin Dunbar…
Next he covers “Building Credibility” by doing
“Good Works”
- He starts by stating you should always have a
couple extra poop bags in case you need to share, and always pick up the poop (a potential concern if you’re distracted on a cellphone). - Make sure your poop bag is big enough to pick up some litter that you may see along the way. You need to show that “Caring for the Community” thing.
- Have a note pad or phone to remember
names of the dogs, and later on, the owner’s names. People and dogs always like it when someone remembers their name. See P83 Dale Carnegie’s book “How to win friends & influence People” - Bring a couple extra dog biscuits; the preferred brands are Milk Bone, medium sized.
Sam then gets into “What your dogs will do for you”.
Dogs love their owners unconditionally, so he states that dogs are already great examples for us to follow.
Did you know your dog’s happiness and excitement for going on a walk, will spill over to you, and from you to others. They have proven this, and Sam has added some material in his book on the “Dynamic spread of happiness in a large social network”. The study showed that the influence of someone that’s happy outweighs the influence of someone that’s unhappy, and it’s contagious.
The research is from the Dynamic spread of happiness in a large social network: longitudinal analysis over 20 years in the Framingham Heart Study, US National Library of Medicine, 2008-12-04.
Once you leave the house, all prepared with a smile, your dog will lead you to other dogs. As you’re dragged to the other dog with their owner, just say things like “Your dog’s sure is cute” or “That’s an interesting breed”, or “How long have you had your dog?”. See his book for the complete list of “People Intros”.
http://www.npr.org/2013/11/01/240817359/can-you-smile-your-way-to-success
The secret here is that you already have
common interests. Both of you love dogs, you
live in the same community, and you like the
benefits of being outdoor and walking. For this
last one, see his chapter with Marilyn Powell on
Walking Matters.
Two part podcast:
- http://www.cbc.ca/radio/ideas/walkingmatters-part-1-1.2914039
- http://www.cbc.ca/radio/ideas/walkingmatters-part-2-1.2914045
Sam then covers the last ingredient,
“Consistency over Time”.
- As you go through the routine of your daily
walks, you meet the same people again and
again.
The chatting gets past the fluff, and develops
into friendships. - You’re getting all the health benefits of
walking, being outdoors, and experiencing
nature. - You get opportunities to help one another, by dog sitting, sharing your skills with these
friends, or just chatting with those who like to chat. - And your community gets safer and cleaner
with all those dog patrols with litter bags.
So that about covers the main highlights.
In conclusion:
I hope this has helped you to see that Sam has a great book here. He has laid out pretty simple steps to help you develop lots of friendships, with minimal effort on your part. That you can make a real difference in your community, and you can feel great that you are letting your light shine, showing your good works.
References
- Preach my Gospel, Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, 1980.
- https://www.lds.org/manual/preach-my-gospel-a-guide-to-missionary-service?lang=eng
- Preach my Gospel, for LDS Missionary Dogs, 2008, 1st Edition. Sam Burndorfer.
- How to Win Friends & Influence People, 1936. Dale Carnegie, Pocket Book Publications
- Dynamic spread of happiness in a large social network: longitudinal analysis over 20 years in the Framingham Heart Study, US National Library of Medicine, 2008-12-04.
- https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2600606/
- Smile your way to success, Ron Gutman, 2013-11-01,
- http://www.npr.org/2013/11/01/240817359/can-you-smile-your-way-to-success
- Walking Matters, Marilyn Powell, CBC Ideas, 2014,
- http://www.cbc.ca/radio/ideas/walking-matters-part-1-1.2914039
- http://www.cbc.ca/radio/ideas/walking-matters-part-2-1.2914045